{"id":26,"date":"2015-05-10T16:46:45","date_gmt":"2015-05-10T16:46:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mark.prophetsplanet.com\/?p=26"},"modified":"2015-05-10T16:54:12","modified_gmt":"2015-05-10T16:54:12","slug":"3-friends-we-all-need","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/markmarshall.org\/?p=26","title":{"rendered":"3 Friends We All Need"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I have been contemplating Kingdom relationship principles and came across the thought, \u201cThe Kingdom of Heaven is like unto a net.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I discovered that there where three kind of friends and relationships we all need to be successful in life. It made me think of the other three friend groups we all are familiar with. I remember the 3 Stooges; Moe, Larry, and Curly. The 3 Musketeers; all for one and one for all. The 3 Amigos, hopefully no one is in the 3 Blind mice club! There is a verse that talks about a three-fold chord not easily being broken.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I think about all of my friendships I\u2019ve made all over country. Many of these offer so many gifts to me. But I would say if you had these three friends, then I am convinced it would be hard for you to fail at most anything. I\u2019m talking about those friends that literally can be a source of sharpening, and another that brings clarity and the breath of life in hard times. I remember the teaching we used to get from our leadership courses; Your 5 closest friends right now will influence and determine your future. In other words the principle is you attract what you project.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">My philosophy is always been we need mentoring people in our lives. We need those Over us, or ahead. We need those who walk Beside us our partners. We all need to be giving back that which was given to us in this light; we all need those we feed and help.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I believe your friends not only are a life source, but they are your friends for a reason. Many of them are \u2018mirrors\u2019 in to who you really are. Sometimes they expose you to parts of you that you weren\u2019t even familiar with about you. I pondered to the greatest leader of all and those \u2018friends\u2019 He hung out and worked with. \u00a0I mean imagine if all of your work friends are your every day friends; that could be heaven or hell LOL. Jesus prayed all night before \u2018picking\u2019 his mini tribe of friends. I believe all 12 of them were necessary to fulfill His mission on earth. They were called and in the end He called them friends.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The 3 kind of friends we all need, whether we think so or not. The Kingdom is like a Net; so therefore the Kingdom is about relationships and connectedness \u00a0for a higher purpose.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">1. Casters \u2013 Relationships that<strong> Motivate<\/strong> me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Motivate \u2013 prompt, strive, stimulate, activate (provide a motive for doing something) inspire, encourage; \u2018Fire with Enthusiasm\u2019<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">These are the friends and people in our lives that inspire us. Not only to infuse with energy for goals, but more importantly the inspiration to be the \u2018authentic me\u2019. Discovery of our Divine nature and our RealU context takes courage. I can\u2019t think of anything more important as to be on the search for our authentic self. Many of us have accountability partners for eating right, working out, achieve personal goals and the such. These are all great, but we need those who inspire us to shed fear and shame, and walk in our true authentic self.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You remember that Snickers commercial, where one of the people on the team, or worker is acting Not like themselves? And the just of it is, their friends will say Bob, eat a snickers man you are NOT BEING YOURSELF! \u00a0So we have snickers bars at work, and when people are being grumpy or\u00a0complaining, we go had them and Snickers and say _________ you are not acting like your real self, eat this please! \u00a0It is important that we have authentic grounded friends. Those who can walk the walk.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I mean motivating me by being the kind of person that makes me a Better me! That\u2019s what kind of friend I aspire to be. I think because it is much easier to be vulnerable and authentic in the presence of those with like desires. I don\u2019t know all of the things in your life that cause you want to be vulnerable and authentic, more than the fear of others scorn; hopefully you are there and are ready for the \u2018casters\u2019 to arrive in your life and motivate you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">There is an old saying, \u2018When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear.\u2019<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">2. Menders \u2013 Relationships that <strong>Mend<\/strong> me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Menders are those friends that know how administer grace when you need it the most. These are the friends that really know you better than you even know yourself. These are the friends that can show you the forest in spite of the trees. They are not impressed with your accomplishments like others are, and certainly are not afraid of your mess.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mend \u2013 to make something (broken, torn, wore out) whole. By usable purpose by repairing<br \/>\nTo remove and correct defects. Recovery of the sick, to knit grow back together. To improve<br \/>\nconditions and affairs<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">3. Washers \u2013 Relationships that <strong>Moisturize <\/strong>me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Moisturize \u2013 to add or restore moisture, make moist, soft, and pliable again.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When people become dry they get brittle and break easily over time. They no longer know how to bend, they crack. These are those headed for a burnout, or are there and do not realize it. \u00a0Washer friends keep you from bitterness of soul, through the sheer joy they bring to your life. \u00a0They can bring peace and a light heart\u00a0to about anyone. In these times especially we need these people in our lives.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Listen to the pod casts on this series. We go into more detail about how to identify these types of friends and just why they are important to you.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\">Click\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/s206723591.onlinehome.us\/?store=1\" target=\"_blank\">HERE!<\/a>\u00a0to listen\u2026<\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been contemplating Kingdom relationship principles and came across the thought, \u201cThe Kingdom of Heaven is like unto a net.\u201d I discovered that there where three kind of friends and relationships we all need to be successful in life. It made me think of the other three friend groups we all are familiar with. 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